I've been doing some volunteer gardening lately at for the hospice organization that I used to work for. They have a "Memory Garden" so those who use their services can buy a brick in honor or memory of a loved one. It's amazing to me that I can do a few hours work there and not feel the least bit tired. Not even a little. We start early in the morning, work hard for several hours. And when I leave, I put in a full day doing whatever else needs to be done that day. I suppose the feeling of good will that goes with hard labor is a good buffer for aching muscles.
Now, when I still worked there the Memory Garden was a big project. I didn't always feel warm and cozy about it either. In fact, there were times I wanted to be doing anything but think about that garden.
It was actually part of the organization before I was. I only started to feel a connection to the garden after it had to be moved. Yes, that's right: MOVED. See, because when you change locations you can't leave behind bricks engraved with former patients' names and plaques lovingly devoted to your organization's namesake. So, when the organization moved, as painful as it was, the garden moved.
It was tricky for a long time. We weren't moving to a place that could accommodate a garden. Our administrative offices were downtown so there was no room there either. So we waited. My boss, Cris, searched for options, we queried donors. And, to make a long story short, she eventually found a retail space, still in development, who would host our garden. So work began on the new garden.
With just one store there and many, many empty lots, it was hard to see anything in this space. And, it was what it was: a giant patch of dirt, with two muddy ponds, right next to the highway. We held groundbreaking ceremonies and planted trees. We put in plaques, benches and sidewalks. Even without all the amenities that our original garden had, it had peace and quiet, though, right? Well, no. It's next to the highway! It had highway noise. And two ponds with geese. Have I mentioned the geese, or the POOP? So, to say it had a lot of detractors is an understatement.
But, Cris had vision. She'd say, "Well, it's just dirt now and a couple of ponds, but think about what's going in here!" And then she'd proceed to tell you about the couples who would come from the restaurants, hand-in-hand, and how they'd walk the sidewalks and sit at the benches and linger a little longer as they watched the sun set over the pond.
Maybe it hasn't become that romanticized as she envisioned, but I can now honestly say that it is more than I thought it would be and now, I can see its potential. Yes, cynical me. There are stores nearby and traffic and there's a vet clinic next door, so people DO use the walking path. They appreciate the names there (I hope). And, I imagine that while they are there they wonder, "What if we put in a brick for Pa-Pa?" And, as more stores have gone in, the traffic noise from the highway is lessened. For the first few years, the focus was on structure. It was important to plant trees and put in sidewalks and bridges. This year, I helped put in roses and daisies. I can see that there will be beautiful things blooming there.
And maybe the reason I've enjoyed volunteering there is the sense of accomplishment growing where I never thought it would grow. I'm not too proud to admit that it was wrong to be cynical.